Jewish Ritualsfor the modern woman
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Sacred feminine wisdom

Jewish Ritualsfor the modern woman

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For the woman seeking more
depth, meaning, and connection.

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A path toritual, belonging, and feminine spiritual depth

What this means

This work helps Jewish women reclaim womanhood through Jewish ritual, especially the practices and wisdom entrusted to women.

It is a bridge for women who did not grow up with these rituals, yet who feel deeply Jewish and want more depth, meaning, and a stronger connection to identity, feminine power, and purpose.

The Three Pillars

A map for the modern Jewish woman who remembers there is more.

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Her Tribe

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Sarah. Rivka. Rachel. Leah. Miriam. Esther. Ruth. Judith.

You belong to a lineage of strong Jewish women. They were mothers, community leaders, builders, and protectors. Their stories are not history. They are your map.

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Her Rituals

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Mikveh. Rosh Chodesh. Candle lighting. Sacred study.

Jewish rituals for women that honor the cycles and seasons of a woman's body, awaken creative power, strengthen the heart, and invite the sacred into everyday life.

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Her Mission

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Kabbalah teaches that every soul enters this world with something only she can reveal, refine, and elevate.

Your gifts. Your struggles. Your calling. None of it is random.

Rooted in Tradition

כל נשמה יורדת לעולם לתקן

Kabbalah teaches that every soul enters this world with a purpose: to reveal something holy, refine what is broken, and elevate what is waiting to be transformed.

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For the Jewish woman ready to reclaim ritual, identity, and feminine power.

Also available for for rosh chodesh circles, teaching, and speaking invitations on jewish womanhood, leadership, mikveh, ritual, and the future of the jewish people. Reach out.

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About Nellie

Rooted in leadership, ritual, and community.

Nellie Hayat is a public speaker, leadership expert, and Jewish ritual guide based in Los Angeles. For over a decade, she has worked with leaders across Silicon Valley while also teaching mikveh and niddah, guiding women one-on-one, and helping Jewish women deepen their connection to ritual, identity, and purpose.

Since 2020, Nellie and her husband have built Frida's House, a vibrant Venice community that has opened its doors to artists, healers, and the local Jewish community. She has been a longtime champion of At The Well, served as a mikveh attendant in San Francisco, and continues to deepen her study through a program of the Israeli Ministry of Religious Affairs.

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